BuddyPress

when i comment on somthing if i refresh or leave the page the comment disappears on the main activity stream, but is still on your personal stream need help with this asap thank you

Basic troubleshooting – change theme to bp-default theme. It would also help if you give additional info like WP/BP versions, issue happening on new install or updated install, etc.

@mercime thank you for the reply i tried changing back to the default theme but that diddnt work, i have the lastest version of both wp/bp its happening on updated install

What theme are you using?
What plugins do you have activated? Specifically plugins which deal with activity streams and/or comments e.g. Akismet, etc? Have you tried deactivating plugins except BuddyPress to check which is interfering with your updated install?

@mercime i have already tried deactivating all my plugins execpt buddypress but it still happens, the theme im using is BP Columns 1.5.3 but it still happens when i have the default theme aswell, the plugins that deal with the activity stream are BuddyPress Activity Plus, BuddyPress Activity Stream Bump to Top, BuddyPress Activity Stream Extras, but like i say i have deactivated them and it still happens

bump

i really need help with this i cannot figure out whats wrong