@boonebgorges
Thanks!!
I actually added a
`|| current_user_can(‘edit_users’)`
to the bp_is_my_profile() check. Otherwise bad things were gonna happen 
Removing user_has_access and site_admin_only alone didn’t work.
Did you mean to replace the code in bp-members-loader.php : Line 137 to
if ( !is_user_logged_in() && !is_super_admin() )
return false;
?
I don’t think I wanna edit core files 
Thanks for your reply. I don’t mind editing home.php because I’m doing it in my theme file. I’ve figured out a way to prevent the friends tab to other users. Just trying to figure out the way it’s done for messages, so that I’m not reinventing anything.