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I hope you can help. When I started making my community site it diddnt seem so difficult. Although I do not have much in terms of html/ css skills, I am generally resourceful. I found a theme(bluze )which suited basically what I wanted to do but ultimiatley found out it was not compatible with buddy press….. thus I am back a ground zero. I am looking for a magaizine style , bp compatible theme, with a slider feature bar, video, and ad support. What would be a good templete for me to start with that would get me the closest? I wish i had the available resource just to hire it all done however recent circumstances have changed where I have to be resourceful with my availble funds. I appreciate any help and or advice to point me in the right direction. Thanks so much!!!!