@hkcharlie
Once upon a time  @modemlooper had a plugin that would do this but he removed it from the repository. The only downside was it did not give any options to order the nav item. It just added a profile nav item at the end of the other nav items. I have no clue if he has this available anywhere on the net. Sorry!
		
	 
	
	
	
 
		
			
	
	
		
		 @hkcharlie
New plugin out does the trick:
https://wordpress.org/plugins/bp-direct-menus/
Works good in my test so far!
		
	 
	
	
	
 
		
			
	
	
		
		 @hkcharlie
Just for your info in the plugin I mentioned above you can drag that menu item to whatever position you want it to be in, in your navigation so this is very cool!
		
	 
	
	
	
 
		
			
	
	
		
		 @bphelp  I’m so happy, what a great way to start the week, thank you !   🙂
		
	 
	
	
	
 
		
			
	
	
		
		 @bphelp
please can you help me with the next step.
Now I have the profile menu on the main menu, I need to remove the top level menu from the profile header, BUT keep the second level menu’s for each option. 
eg:
Activity is now on the main menu, I’d like it removed (along with all the other options) from the user profile screen,
BUT…
when I choose Activity from the main menu, I’d like on the profile, the options for “Personal
Mentions , Favorites , Friends , Teams
can you help ? 
		
	 
	
	
	
 
		
			
	
	
		
		Go to Appearance>menu. Scroll down and un-check the box beside top menu.
		
	 
	
	
	
 
		
			
	
	
		
		sorry, I’m not seeing it!