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I need to be able send posts and replies between friends and have them
remain private.

ASSUMPTIONS: User # 1 has 15 friends and User # 2 is a friend of User #1. User # 2 only has one friend, User# 1.

LEVEL 1 POSTS
I want to be able to have User #2 send a post directly to their friend User#1 but not have the friends of User #1 also see the post.

The same would also applies to reply().

LEVEL 2 POSTS
User # 1 can send public post only to their friends which cannot be seen by the COMMUNITY.

I’ve installed Friends Only Activity Stream
plugin by Sarah Gooding( @pollyplummer)
but all posts directed to a profile are seen by friends
of that profile.

This is a medical site so at times a user may need to send multiple PRIVATE posts without having to Compose a private message.