i just came across 1 thing is the home page that lets my user to view whats happening all over the site , which is not good what i want is facebook like functionality that users should get updates just about his/her frnds …or about them on which the frnds commented …is there any hack or plugin to do this ?

[@scotty501 Member 15 years ago]

https://buddypress.org/community/groups/creating-extending/forum/topic/new-plugin-friends-only-activity-stream/

I use this – there is a tweak to show your own posts too – as it stands it will ignore the users own post – a quick search will find the fix – its pretty simple.

I can’t see its supported anymore which is a shame as some fine tuning of this could make it excellant. For example if you click View on a person is not a friend – it will just return blank – it would be better if it said “Only Friends Can See this etc” – but it is a good starting point.

Good Luck