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I am using Theme My Login plugin and gives a login page

did you check in general settings Hide admin bar for logged out users?: it should No

You need to use a wordpress 3.0 compatible theme or create a child theme based on twentyten or buddypress and use that.

I read somewhere that buddypress can only work if you have network enabled on your wordpress as buddypress plugins activates as network try that see if it solves your problem.

in wordpress settings General check if you have the time zone set right.

when you installed buddypress sliding login panel you had to put this code define( ‘BP_DISABLE_ADMIN_BAR’, true );
in wp-config.php to hide the buddypress admin bar just take it out and deactivate buddypress sliding login panel.

Try this plugin see if it works for you FV Community News

Try this plugin BuddyPress Album+ they can upload photos from the profile .

I am using latest wordpress 3.0.1 and default twentyten child theme and all i did was transfer folders using buddypress theme pack and go in menu and create a custom menu and use it as primary menu add all the pages in menu and than create custom links for buddypress like for /activity /members/ /forums […]

Need to know how you put read more link in post?

ok I am sorry I did not know that they were different as mine is same.

Looks like you have setup problem try default theme and see you have same problems.

@matt have you tried this Theme My Login plugin as it will redirect to login page on your own theme