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@echiomega I’d be really interested in hearing if that works. I remember it causing me a great deal of stress.

That just prompted me to search my inbox for the problem so this is what I wrote a few months ago when I was having that problem :
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If you’re using pretty permalinks then you have to start it with a numeric […]

@echiomega My site has literally thousands of pages and the first time mine was eating memory it was due to a wordpress bug with the permalinks (various strange sql queries going into infinite loops) – try […]

I know this isn’t terribly helpful for this situation, but I have just reverted back to 1.2.10 and the memory problems have gone away. For now, I can live without the upgrade. It might not solve the problem <a href='https://buddypress.org/community/members/echiomega/&#039; […]

Just to note, I’m also experiencing buddypress using 1.5 eating memory. My site is terribly slow at the moment.

When I disable buddypress, my site becomes lightning fast again. Specifically, when I installed […]

*face-palm*, couldn’t see the wood for the trees. For anyone else who cares : bp_get_total_group_count_for_user() – this displays the number of groups a particular logged in user is a member of. so to display My Groups (x) {where x is the number of groups a logged in user is a part of, the magic code […]