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And if you really don;t have wildcards.. move to a new host that does. Seriously. There’s less work & pain in moving to a new host than there would be to have any kind of workaround.

Emails are unrelated to the theme.

Likely, as we;ve covered many times previously – the emails are not being *recieved* which is a different issue. Please search, and if you still can;t find an answer post a new thread.

They are tied in with wordpress.org accounts. Not sure you can.

Just stop posting?

Oh, they never are “done”. 😀 The community I started 4+ years ago is still going & still being changed every few months. Gotta change or die.

well there is the BuddyPress for Dummies book available.

That manual is a third party resource – not an official one.

The subdomains & subfolder parts are controlled by multisite, not buddypress. And you can’t mix ’em. Not even with multiple networks (unless you want to map those subdomains, but I’m guessing you do not). SO ya can’t find it cuz it’s not really easily do-able. Not without two installs. Why not just have it all […]

Yes, but I’m not a fan of the grid service in general. Winds up being slow.

Keep going. 🙂 I’m on a site still in dev after 2 years. *sigh*

Get Firebug to find it and linking to your site helps. CSS is in the theme’s style.css file.

What theme is it?

Usually it’s the theme code itself that needs to be fixed. Also, it’s not mu any more, it’s multisite if you have multiple blogs.

I think if @nunujo wants the *same* BP to show across all subsites, he’d be better off using the define bp multiblog.

https://codex.buddypress.org/extending-buddypress/changing-internal-configuration-settings/

“Update: Enabling the ‘Mail From’ plugin https://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/mail-from/ solves the problem. I’m not thoroughly satisfied with this solution because it is too mysterious , but at least it is a solution.” It’s not mysterious – it;s a symptom of exactly what I described. The hosts on the receiving end are killing the emails that are sent […]

Launch early, launch often. 😀 And launch at 70%. If anything having users in there asap gives better feedback than being in constant development and never opening the doors.

Put a noindex on your signup link. Look at your access logs – I bet the majority of spammers do a google search then hit your site.

” you can check out the upload directory which in most cases is wp-content/uploads …”

Not always a definitive as you can move that. 😉

The “create blog” text only shows up if you’ve enabled multisite. Which I’m not sure the book covers.

A hook manager I can get behind. 😉

You’d have to set up multisite to give your users separate blogs so they can post.

https://codex.wordpress.org/Create_A_Network
http://wpebooks.com/2010/09/how-to-enable-multisite-in-wordpress/

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