[dajin]

try to use this widget
http://buddydev.com/plugins/buddypress-notifications-widget/

hope it will help you

[dajin]

i think buddypress is the best. budypreess is the speediest social network i know .. but we need more features and i hope they will come with the next version ..

[dajin]

hello after registration you must active your account
to active you will get an email with active link

Best regards
dajin