I looked at the description of that before and thought it seemed to be aimed at matching people with similar characteristics – which is what I already have.
I want something that allows a member to say he/she wants a match to characteristics that are different. For example, she doesn’t smoke but is ok if he does. Or he drinks but wants her to be a person who doesn’t. Or he is 6’3″ tall and is looking for someone who is shorter than that.
My understanding of what I’ve currently got is that it takes one member’s profile and matches it with members who have identical profiles (except for the “man looking for a woman” field).
Do you know if match-me-for-buddypress allows non-identical matching?