Did that. Came up with a plugin called postman that I’m trying out. It can send me an email (tested it and I got the email). Now I’m trying to send a re-confirm email from buddypress hoping it gets along.
Everything looks good – it is set up to send me an email whenever someone posts…I will try the steps you suggest to see if I get an email from an anonymous user.
Nope. I just have Buddypress installed without any email plugins. Just using whatever WordPress uses as a standard! I’d love to get this working as I have an organization that I am proposing we convert to this as our members are very active on FaceBook and why not make our organization’s website interactive with BuddyPress.