I’m sorry, although my suffusion theme was buddypress compatible after a few tricks, I didn’t get a forum tab to appear.
Once I enabled the buddypress default theme I got the forum thing working, thanks.
One question though, I want to try out a few other forums, is there a way to delete/disable the bbpress forum for the time being, so that it doesn’t cause issues.
Like Buddypress links that don’t work etc.