*facepalm, well that was completely my mistake, not sure why i didnt notice the spacing in my folders. thanks, that seems to have fixed the problem, now i just gotta get both forums working for groups and site, seems they overlap.
just a quick update, when using the navigation links on the site it doesnt break, when using the dropdown menu from the top right those links break still.
thanks, got the links working now and buddy press isnt listing any more issues but while everything is linked are the pages supposed to be all blank?
how would i add the functions to them like the forum etc (i have gone to the forum option and installed it.
i originally chose the default theme but am now slightly editing it using a child theme. have tried going to the default theme again and still same problem.