Just had to do this on an installation, here is the code:
function bp_group_remove_tabs() {
global $bp;
if (isset($bp->groups->current_group->slug) && $bp->groups->current_group->slug == $bp->current_item)
{
// Duplicate the line below changing 'home' for each tab you wish to remove
$bp->bp_options_nav[$bp->groups->current_group->slug]['home'] = false;
}
}
add_action( 'bp_setup_nav', 'bp_group_remove_tabs', 999 );