[waveint]

Thanks modemlooper that was a great help…

However i still get all this loaded into the head?

<link rel='stylesheet' id='bp-legacy-css-css'  href='http://tempwp/wp-content/plugins/buddypress/bp-templates/bp-legacy/css/buddypress.css?ver=1.7.3' type='text/css' media='screen' />

	<script type="text/javascript">var ajaxurl = 'http://tempwp/wp-admin/admin-ajax.php';</script>

	<link rel="alternate" type="application/rss+xml" title="Template WP | Site Wide Activity RSS Feed" href="http://tempwp/activity/feed/" />

		<script type="text/javascript" charset="utf-8">
			/* <![CDATA[ */
			var ajaxurl = 'http://tempwp/wp-admin/admin-ajax.php';
			/* ]]> */
		</script>

	<link rel='canonical' href='http://tempwp/members/' />

	<script type="text/javascript">
		jQuery( document ).ready( function() {
			jQuery( 'a.confirm').click( function() {
				if ( confirm( 'Are you sure?' ) )
					return true; else return false;
			});
		});
	</script>