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Hello,

I am using wordpress 4.2.2 and buddypress 2.2.3.1 with bbpress 2.5.7

i have an issue with my buddypress wordpress. My site has load time 10 secs with admin-ajax.php loading 3 times with 3-4 sec delay every time.

The only thing i could find on the forums has to do with woocoomerce which i dont have activated on my theme. I guess the only thing that has issues with admin-ajax.php is the buddypress login thats why i open that topic.
You can check what i mean here http://tools.pingdom.com/fpt/#!/dBUhCx/http://apofasismenoi.gr/

I tried some solutions like heartbeat options pluggin that didnt work.

Also i tried and added on functions a suggested code

add_action( 'init', 'my_deregister_heartbeat', 1 );
function my_deregister_heartbeat() {
	global $pagenow;

	if ( 'post.php' != $pagenow && 'post-new.php' != $pagenow )
		wp_deregister_script('heartbeat');
}

but still didnt work.

Any ideas or help?

Chris