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Here is my website with BuddyPress: http://ViewsFor.me
First I tried deactivating a bunch of plug-ins that I installed recently with no luck.

Then I found this: http://wordpress.org/support/topic/plugin-buddypress-cant-post-update-in-activity-stream
If you scroll down to Arkadia’s post you will see a fix that seems to be working for everyone. However, the plug-in suggested to install broke my entire website. As for the rest, I found the first part of the code in post-form.php so Arkadia is right that the button is in fact there, it’s just hidden. The problem is I can’t seem to find the buttons parent div #whats-new-options that Arkadia said to change:

#whats-new-options {
overflow: auto;
height: 0px; /*CHANGE THIS HEIGHT TO 40px or whatever you want*/
}

I’m assuming if I find this buttons parent div #whats-new-options I will be able fix it. Does anyone know where to find this, or do you need that plug-in that destroyed my website for that? If so, any other suggestions?