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On my BuddyPress site I have been successfully able to let my users send me queries about other users. I have accomplished this by using Contact Form 7 + Dynamic Text Extension. When I receive an email sent by contact form 7; I know which user (current_user) has sent me query about which user (displayed_user).

The problems are –

1 – I receive multiple emails when a user enquires about multiple users.
2 – The users have no chance to change their mind and cancel their query / selection.

What I want –

Somehow gather the data collected by contact form 7 from all the selections done by the user, show it in one place and give the user a chance to cancel or add more selections before sending email.

I will appreciate any help/directions on this. Kindly guide.

Thank you in advance.