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Hi All

I have a buddypress setup working great, my issue is though that when a users receives a friend request email and clicsk thes link to view, they are directed to a 404 page not found.

If they are logged into the site, link works great and shows the friend request.
If they are logged out, then if goes to the page error.

I understand the user has to be logged in to view the friend request but how do i get it to recognise the user isnt logged in and redirect to wp-login on a login page, instead of going to the 404 page ?

I have tried private BP pages plugin which is great but doesnt solve this problem.

Thanks all..

PS i have disabled all plugins no change.