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@kvschwartz
You would not see the button on your own members directory listing. Have you tried creating a test user and logging in to see if the button is there? I am for hire if you need help and you can contact me here if you have a budget to work with.

@kvschwartz
bp-custom.php should reside in http://www.your-site/wp-content/plugins or if your on localhost it would be http://localhost/your-site/wp-content/plugins. It is not in a folder like other plugins would be. It is just a php file named bp-custom.php that occupies the same directory as a plugin. Please…[Read more]

@kvschwartz
Have you tried:

BuddyPress Notifications Widget

Or:
https://wordpress.org/plugins/buddymenu-buddylinks/
?

@kvschwartz
Don’t you think this would throw people off? You add friends by searching the members directory. How else would one determine if they want to be friends with this other person?
Answer to b) I have a plugin that will add data to the members directory.

I thought about offering it free but after further consideration I decided to offer…[Read more]

@kvschwartz
On the members directory you should see a button to the right of that member that says “Remove Friend!” If you are not friends already it would read “Add Friend.”

@nasive
I suggest trying out:
https://wordpress.org/plugins/bp-direct-menus/

@cogden-1
Try this plugin I made. This only makes BuddyPress and bbPress private.
https://wordpress.org/plugins/private-bp-pages/
Also make sure you read the FAQ first:
https://wordpress.org/plugins/private-bp-pages/faq/
Make sure you clear the previous code out of bp-custom.php that you posted above!

@corytrevor
You might want to shared with the theme author that bp_is_page() was depreciated as of BP 1.7+

@serie3369
You really should still make a child theme and add that that to it. Otherwise if you update your theme it is likely that it will be overwritten.

@randygootjes
Have you tried:
https://wordpress.org/plugins/private-community-for-bp-lite/

@randygootjes
Please explain more clearly so you can help us help you!

@sheratonwalls
Has the person actually logged in yet?

@zane
When you are logged in hover the “My Account Menu” in the top right. Then click Settings/Notifications. On the next screen scroll down towards the bottom. Under “Groups” select “Yes” to the right of “A member requests to join a private group for which you are an admin.”

@randygootjes
Also see my reply here:
https://buddypress.org/support/topic/terms-of-agreement-checkbox-for-registration/

@chuvadeideias
Just looking at the image and the dynamic members part of the URL is missing. What themes/plugins/custom code are you using?

@randygootjes
This would be easy using just BuddyPress Xprofile fields:
https://codex.buddypress.org/user/buddypress-components-and-features/extended-profiles/
You could create a dropdown menu and make it required and only allow the selection from say 21 to 120 years of age (“Not like most of us will live that long anyway unfortunately”) But also…[Read more]

@yvonnetaylor
What theme and plugins are you using? Screenshot, and links to the site is also helpful to help us help you!

@serie3369
The codex is your Buddy:
https://codex.buddypress.org/legacy/building-a-buddypress-child-theme/

@jloc14
So if you reverted to bp-default and nothing happened that should tell you right there that it is a theme issue! I would make a complaint to them and request they fix this immediately or you expect a prompt refund!

@jloc14
Have you tried reverting back to bp-default to see if the issue persists? This is basic troubleshooting procedures. This way you can isolate if it is a theme issue.