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@cambridge15 Run your website through http://tools.pingdom.com to see which resources are being loaded. That should show you which scripts you need to focus on.

@cambridge15 wp_dequeue_script( 'jquery' ); goes into your theme’s functions.php file but you need a bit more for it to work:

function my_dequeue_jquery() {
wp_dequeue_script( 'jquery' );
}
add_action( 'wp_footer', 'my_dequeue_jquery', 11 );