@mercime it is a custom theme but I have built many so I dont think it would be that would it?? This is my first walk with Buddypress, I just didnt know if I forgot to do something or what.. If you want to check for yourself the url is socializespark.com and when you login you can click on latest members and try to add the ‘admin’ as a friend or DerekS (that’s me as well).
I dont know if that would help you see what is happening