[jsigned]

So a little bit more searching found this:
https://buddypress.trac.wordpress.org/ticket/1995
Which has had no attention for 17 months until cnorris23 jumped on board 3 days ago.

and this
https://buddypress.trac.wordpress.org/ticket/3695
which has some attention and actual code by cnorris23. You go guy!

I just don’t understand why this critical functionality has had no attention. Hopefully cnorris23 will make some progress.

[jsigned]

If I was looking to pay someone, how hard would it be to add per-field privacy controls? BuddyPress is good but the whole lack of privacy has me seriously looking at Mingle.

What is the best way to get in touch with coders if I’m willing to pay for this and other custom development?

[jsigned]

Bump

I’m sure this is a theme problem, but they are not much help. Any clues how to do this would be appreciated.