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@mindyjoy do you have access to the database, eg through your Control Panel and phpMyAdmin?

It might help to look in there to see what is going on.

In the wp_users table there is a ‘user_status’ column. I […]

hi @mindyjoy,

@boonebgorges did a nice plugin a few time back  who exactly does what you ask for.
Unconfirmed ! https://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/unconfirmed/

i use it to remove automatic spammers from my […]