[msslrb]

I’ve deactivated the theme and all plugins and the problem was still there. Is there a way for me to tell what code is causing the problem?

[msslrb]

This is what I found.

jquery.js?ver=1.12.4-wp:4 XHR failed loading: POST “https://example.com/wp-admin/admin-ajax.php”.
send @ jquery.js?ver=1.12.4-wp:4
ajax @ jquery.js?ver=1.12.4-wp:4
n.<computed> @ jquery.js?ver=1.12.4-wp:4
ajax @ buddypress-nouveau.min.js?ver=6.0.0:1
buttonAction @ buddypress-nouveau.min.js?ver=6.0.0:1
dispatch @ jquery.js?ver=1.12.4-wp:3
r.handle @ jquery.js?ver=1.12.4-wp:3

I’m not sure how to fix it. I discovered that friend requests to the admin is fairly quick. it’s the button for all other members that takes a long time.

[msslrb]

My button takes a while to go from “Add Friend” to “Cancel Request” and it doesn’t appear to be working. Sometimes, I have to refresh the page to see the change.