mcpeanut,thank you for your observations and insights. Buddypress was working fine, and then suddenly quit. i tried reactivating, but each time, it would crash the dashboard of wordpress. i had go daddy walk me through resetting it. since i couldnt get bp to work, i found peepso as a quick fix so that something was there. but i lost all the posts, groups etc.
i’m looking for a “web dude” lol, whose coding acumen can weave together the vision i have.
i’ll look into your suggestions based on the yslow report.
i don’t know how to do much of this, but am willing to learn.
GO DADDY WHO HOSTS MY SITE SAID THAT ONLY WHEN I RUN BUDDY PRESS, THE DASHBOARD CRASHES AND I HAVE TO TURN OFF ALL PLUG INS, AND START OVER. WHY CANT SOME RESPONSIBLE PERSON REPLY WITH AN ANSWER AND NOT ARROGANCE?????