== I tried every BP theme that I have and no matter what it still displays the same. … I disabled any plugin having to do with the comments. ==
Then try to deactivate all plugins except BuddyPress, not only the ones having to do with the comments, and change to bp-default theme.
== I would like to have to when people click the reply button, the reply form pops up in a lightbox. ==
No plugin available at this time for that kind of pop up.
oh my we have the same problem..I just wonder if there is anyone who could have an idea on how to code that it will display below the activity that you will want to reply with.. or is there a plugin that can disable the reply button and change it to comment
thanks mercime I have tried your idea and the reply button already work