I have a local installation of WordPress that I use for experimenting.
When I edit the menus, there is a section on the left for BuddyPress with links to the individual component pages for a particular user e.g. friends, profile etc.
I have another website which is live, but for some reason these menu items just aren’t there. I know that the WordPress toolbar at the top links to all the pages, but I really want to customize the position of the links myself like I can do locally. Both installation are running WordPress 3.8.1 and BuddyPress 1.9.2.