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hi, i am newbie here, i am using K9 avenue buddypress theme, i will like to do 3 things which i am ready to pay few quid for your time, 1, i want to have a divider line at my side bar to divide each widget currently nothing divide them, they just show as one.
2, my home page dont show child page . i will like the child page to show as drop down under their parent when you roll mouse on it.

3, i want to install slider on my homepage above all activities.

if you can help me do it, let me know and i will give a password to gain acess. my website is :

http://www.naijaping.com

thanks