What has changed in your install between the time friendship request was working to the time it’s not working anymore? Did you upgrade BP and/or add/delete plugin, etc?
Lots has happened. I upgraded to 3.2.1 but then had to revert to back to 3.1.3 because of incompatability issues with my theme.. I really don’t know where along the issue has arisen? It did work originally.
It looks like in the email that is sent out the url is missing ?new query at the end of the url.
It’s currently: http://www.mysite.com/members/tiki16/friends/requests/
and should be: http://www.mysite.com/members/tiki16/friends/requests/?new
Any idea how this can be fixed?
It seems that the url only resolves if the user is logged in? Which isn’t useful because the majority of the time if you’re receiving an email like this you won’t be logged in. Does anyone know of a fix?
== . I upgraded to 3.2.1 but then had to revert to back to 3.1.3 because of incompatability issues with my theme. ==
I suggest that you find another theme or check with original theme dev if it will be upgraded to current BP 1.5. Contact tech support of your webhost and specifically check if there have been any changes with the mail function
EDIT- there’s also a solution posted here which is not directly related to your issue but which could shed some light to a solution https://buddypress.org/community/groups/how-to-and-troubleshooting/forum/topic/registration-email-not-being-sent/?topic_page=2&num=15#post-100993
