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I use the latest version of Buddypress, latest version of wordpress and I have a question, I use buddypress wall, great plugin but I miss the delete button so that users cann delete their @mention post there. Users have the right to delete own post but not the received post. If I add administrator rights the button appears, it is the ‘manage option’ that gives the rights but that means they can also delete other post of other users, and that is to much rights.

can someone help me? It is the last thing I need to have a good working community.