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Wordpress 4.1 and BP 2.1.1

Here is what I’m doing:
1) user clicks on a “create account” link and fills out a Gravity form and submits it.
– one of the fields is a xProfile field.
– BP puts that user in the pending state (xProfile data is not in bp_xprofile_data yet)
2) user gets an email with an activation link and clicks on it
3) user is redirected to the the successful activation page (page=gf_activation&key=421e779e1d92054f) Here, I can display the xProfile data on the page using xprofile_get_field_data.
– I have overridden wp_new_user_notification with my own function to enhance the registration email
4) email is sent to user with his username and password
My problem is that I want to include the xProfile data in the email, but it is not written to bp_xprofile_data until after the email has been sent. In fact, the wp_user is not created until after the email is sent. But the data has to be somewhere because I can access it when generating the success activation page!

Where the heck is this data stored while the new user is in the pending state and how do I access it?