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Hi,
I’ve installed Buddypress + Learndash to create an LMS platform. There were a TON of speed-related issue as I was using the site, both on the backend and the frontend.

One key one, affecting all of my early adopter users, is the ability to send a friend request.

Whenever I would try, my CPU usage would spike, the SQL server would die (corrupting data).
CW support and I got it to the point where the sql server wouldn’t die, but CPU usage would spike.

With Breeze enabled, the requests take >3s.
Once I disabled Breeze, the requests took <1s.

I would like to leave breeze on, but I can’t figure out the URL to use.
I tried
//ascensionacademy.online/members/*
http://ascensionacademy.online/members/*
and
https://ascensionacademy.online/members/*

but the issue seems to remain.

Does anyone have any ideas? Ideally which URL to try whitelisting for this caching plugin.