Well I just got off the phone with yahoo and they wont let you edit the file and they wont edit it them selfs so my question is there any other way to get this plug in to work with out access to the .htaccess file?
@adiallo thats no good did you try to call there customer support Im gonna try that tomorrow I been with yahoo for about 6 years and I had a php forum or a photo album installed and I remember I had to change something with the .htaccess file I was able to do it back then. Now after reading there rules I see they dont allow you to edit or even see an .htaccess file.
@Boone Gorges I just tried the second option Day and Name then clicked save changes, then test my site http://www.showboyz.net/blog and I get the same results 404 error on BP links page not found