I came here for the cake…where’s it?
Well, obviously it’s you!
Ha ha, free hugs. Nice.
Thank you @johnjamesjacoby for taking this initiative. Some of those other threads (I know the ones of which you speak; I read, just didn’t participate) made me feel uncomfortable, and it’s always difficult navigating the more abusive types, etc. So I just wanted to speak from the other side and say there are some of us who appreciate it. So thanks!
We we’re ever at a WordCamp together, I’ll buy everyone a round of cake. 
No milk? Mojitos at high noon then.
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