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@mattt55
Well I gave you credit because you was my source, if you ever come across the original author then I will credit them. As for the jQuery method see:
http://pastebin.com/kzxCqSb8
I added a _inc file to the plugin that contained the my.js file. See line 33 as to how I implemented it. Really not sure what I did wrong so have a look and see if you notice any errors.