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Mike to solve your problem with the login direction thing.. I’ve solved that with some jquery stuff which opens the reset password dialog:

examples:

http://emberapp.com/bowromir/images/firefox-6

http://emberapp.com/bowromir/images/firefox-7/

The code to display the reset password:

<h6>If you've forgotten your login details you can reset your password. Fill in your email or username and you'll receive an email with further instructions on how to reset your password.</h6><p></p>

<form name="lostpasswordform" id="lostpasswordform" action="<?php echo site_url('wp-login.php?action=lostpassword', 'login_post') ?>" method="post">

<p>

<label><?php _e('Username or E-mail:') ?><br />

<input type="text" name="user_login" id="user_login" class="loginpanel" value="<?php echo esc_attr($user_login); ?>" size="20" tabindex="10" /></label>

</p>

<?php do_action('lostpassword_form'); ?>

<p class="submit"><input type="submit" name="wp-submit" id="wp-submit" class="button-primary" value="<?php esc_attr_e('Get New Password'); ?>" tabindex="100" /></p>

</form>

Another thing you could do for the time being is style the wp-login page with your own logo:

https://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/bm-custom-login/