BuddyPress.org

I just did many testing after sending godaddy a message and they said it’s not of their side, I installed phpbb on my buddypress host for that matter, and tried to see how it send activation message, and for my amazement, it sent it right the second I clicked register! I tried notification message ( which being sent about 1 hour late as well by buddypress) and in phpbb topic reply notifaction it arrived in moment as well.

so I can really say that the problem is at buddypress side, I appreciate the whole work done on it though i will try to find some solution, perhaps @enderandrew I will try theme my login now.