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You can supply your own admin bar if you like. From /bp-core/bp-core-adminbar.php:

add_action( ‘bp_adminbar_logo’, ‘bp_adminbar_logo’ );

add_action( ‘bp_adminbar_menus’, ‘bp_adminbar_login_menu’, 2 );

add_action( ‘bp_adminbar_menus’, ‘bp_adminbar_account_menu’, 4 );

add_action( ‘bp_adminbar_menus’, ‘bp_adminbar_blogs_menu’, 6 );

add_action( ‘bp_adminbar_menus’, ‘bp_adminbar_notifications_menu’, 8 );

add_action( ‘bp_adminbar_menus’, ‘bp_adminbar_authors_menu’, 12 );

add_action( ‘bp_adminbar_menus’, ‘bp_adminbar_random_menu’, 100 );

Those are the actions that are triggered for each of the major menu sections. For ‘my account’ it’s the function bp_adminbar_account_menu(). In bp-custom.php, make one if you don’t have one, do:

remove_action( ‘bp_adminbar_menus’, ‘bp_adminbar_account_menu’, 4 );

add_action( ‘bp_adminbar_menus’, ‘my_account_menu’, 4 );

function my_account_menu(){

<your stuff here for the account menu>

}