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Tyler Regas, totally agree with your criticism.

I believe the problem is BP/WPMU is entirely programmer-driven. There are no usability experts or project managers involved who look at it from a business requirement perspective, so new interesting features always seem to get priority over boring and difficult things like security/privacy.

Flame away regulars! Just my 2 cents. Don’t blame Tyler, who went out his way not to offend.