Re: Buddypress and IntenseDebate
As IntenseDebate exports your WP comments into its own system, your issue is more than likely caused by IntenseDebate misbehaving. Your best bet is to post a question on their support forums and let them help you track down the cause. I found these two related threads:
http://getsatisfaction.com/intensedebate/topics/intense_debate_comments_gone_missing