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@Michael Berra

Your first two suggestions are technically feasible and we will try to include this features within a month.

Regarding the third suggestion you made :

As long as you are using Kaltura Server, and you being an admin of uploaded content, you have full control over media content being uploaded!

And once you have KalturaCE @ your own server, its all up to you

@all

thanks for all your encouraging feedbacks and comments.