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@anointed

Try this plugin:

https://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/oembed-provider/

It seems to only work for images though. Contact the plugin author to ask for video support.

You’d also need to add your site to WP’s oEmbed whitelist, read this:

https://codex.wordpress.org/Embeds#How_Can_I_Add_Support_For_More_Websites.3F