BuddyPress.org

I too was a big supporter of those plugins. Thankfully, I was able to convince someone to revive at least one of them. This might work for at least the photo part of your problem.
http://buddydev.com/buddypress/bp-flickr-plugin-allow-your-users-to-show-their-latest-flickr-images-on-their-buddypress-profile/

I’ve been looking at how to help get a headstart on a similar YouTube plugin also.

Hope this helps.