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I did find this but it’s in the WP part of the BP deal, which is what helpy suggested.

Disable avatar uploads? (Gravatars will still work): Yes No
Disable user account deletion?: Yes No

Then you got to the BB part on your site, which I did, and the same problem is happening. So I

1) Saved settings, logged out of WP backend and BP on site

2) Logged back on BP on site

3) Same There was an error deleting Thomas from the system. Please try again.

So, don’t know what’s up.