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i’m after the same solution.
i’ve been reading dozens of threads so far, but nothing has helped.

i’ve got auto-refresh enabled in BP options, but i do not get to see the “Load newest” link when users post comments.

the theme i’m using is destin basic (i’ve just asked the author for help too).

what could i check? is there a way to spot any AJAX/JS related problem using Firebug, for instance?

thanks for any assistance!