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i am finding this widget to be really buggy to, i post a blog yet it appears like the 3rd item on the list, this is extremly annoying since my post never gets featured, i have a screenshot sidebyside with the sitewide activity widget as seen here: http://hyrxx.com/blogs_conflict.png

is there any way i can expand it so that maybe the first 3 posts are shown maybe show the full post of the one at the top and excerpts of the other 2, and then just the titles for the rest, i feel some posts dont get read because the content is hidden

thanks!!