BuddyPress.org

I have both bbPress and BuddyPress installed on a single site install and the “Pending” link only shows up once.

Can you copy and paste the “Pending” links?

You can just paste in the part after the question mark (?) from the URL. I’m most interested to see what is causing the second “Pending” link to show up.

Your issue is probably caused by a plugin conflict or a rogue code snippet somewhere.

Regarding your email issue, are you able to send out any non-BuddyPress related emails?