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Hi,

After seeing the video it seems like you are getting that link from this file: buddypress\bp-themes\bp-default\members\single\messages\single.php and code is <a class="button confirm" href="<?php bp_the_thread_delete_link(); ?>" title="<?php esc_attr_e( "Delete Message", "buddypress" ); ?>"><?php _e( 'Delete', 'buddypress' ); ?></a> &nbsp;

Also please let me know which template you are using?

Thanks